Introduction to Mary Randolph Carter’s Philosophy
In her insightful book, Live with the Things You Love, Mary Randolph Carter invites readers to celebrate the unique objects that fill their homes. Rather than considering these items as mere clutter, Carter posits that they tell rich stories about our lives and experiences. As a longtime creative director at Ralph Lauren, Carter presents a refreshing alternative to the often sterile and consumer-driven narratives of modern interior design.

A Personal Archive of Memories
Throughout the book, each chapter focuses on different homes and their inhabitants, showcasing a variety of cherished objects. From an artist’s drawing on dinnerware to a handmade ceramic pumpkin, these items serve as touchstones for cherished memories. A well-curated home, as Carter illustrates, becomes a personal museum where each object, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant, holds a significant narrative. This celebration of individuality in home decor stands as a testament to the joy of living with the things you love.
Finding Joy in the Mundane
One of the core themes of Carter’s work is the beauty found in the mundane. She notes homes filled with whimsical objects that may not serve practical purposes but delight the eyes and spark joy. This perspective encourages us to rethink how we approach our living spaces. Instead of striving for perfection, embracing the idiosyncrasies of our possessions can elevate our everyday environments, reminding us of the stories they carry. In embracing these narratives, we cultivate a living space that is both inviting and personal.